Personally I would consider it an honor to be someones first.
In fact I would rather be someones first than be in the hands of some self absorbed polished sexologist....reeling off all the text book `sex phrases`, predictably going through the gears of their well rehearsed generic foreplay repertoire and building to a finale enacted so often it has become impersonal.
Why does it have to be, get, set go, both get exactly where they feel they deserve to be, marks out of ten, how was it for me postmortems and is it worth another encounter.
Oh no, far better to take time, have no schedule, make it precious and personnel over time, not one individual session{for want of a better word}. There is nothing sexier than feeling someone has time and interest to really know and understand the person they are making love to, not necessarily what exactly they are going to do, be tentative, a little nervous, falter a little....just want me, all of me, for as long as it takes.
Thats all folks !
Daisy