[Gemme]

Originally Posted by Mel C.

I tell myself it's about quality not quantity, but just how long is long enough for nookie?????

Well, there was the girl in Orlando that would only hold hands. I think that she had self-image issues with her grill so there was no mouth on mouth kissing. No nookie there either. That was less than a month. There were other issues but the lack of intimacy was a strong factor.

My first butch and I dated with nothing more than petting and that only came after months of dating.

Steve Harvey has the 90 day rule.

I'm too old to worry about that now though. Let me find someone in the same state as me or within 2 hours' travel time and then we'll go from there.