How about.....
Staying at one or another's home watching a movie?
Buying a 6 pack and some nacho chips?
Actually listening to what we say?
Sitting on the beach (fried dough or beach pizza would be good too)
Coffee house?
Foliage ride (if available in your area) with a stop at little shops?
It is so easy but, for whatever reason, we feel like we have to have reservations at the best place in town in order to impress or be impressed.
I met someone years ago. We went to a coffee shop. She has an actual list of questions (she was cautious) and I went on a second and third and fourth, etc date with her.
My worst relationship ever was with someone who spent a boatload of money but wasn't nice in any other way.
There are so many fun things that are free or, at least , very inexpensive.
I know myself that, if someone asked me out and we went to the beach (with crackers and a 6 pack) I would love it.
Just sayin
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