Not a huge fan of traditional weddings. Or religious ones.
But small civic weddings with people dressed in whatever the hell they want with a party after? Fab.
I was still terrified at mine because I hate public speaking. But the party was great

three DJs from great clubs, people dressed up as goth faeries and other fun costumes with a home made buffet in a friends 17th century house. Nothing formal. Just fun.
Not a traditionalist. So we didn't have a traditional wedding. Amsterdam in the snow was fantastic.