I agree about the lack of local butch-femme options. That is definitely my preference.. but its not easy to find groups for them.
I'll be out all weekend. I'm going to an 'Alpaca Challenge' on Saturday then one knitting group in the afternoon and another one in the evening... <-- knitting whore! Sunday I have the Meet up. I think I have something on Friday but I can't remember what it is. Oh.. a softball game. That's it.
I'm obviously trying to keep a little busy... lol!