An instant turn off/on for me is someone's voice
You can look like Selma Hayek (my lifelong lust) or Monica Bellucci, Big Boo or even like Jensen Ackles (my man lust) but you sound like a squeaky toy or Nanny Fine, I just can't. Can't. Conversely, you're not the least bit "conventionally attractive" but you have a voice like roughened velvet or smooth like glass? I'm so there. That's like major for me.
The other big one is if we just don't click intellectually or in our humor. Those are deal breakers. I value cleverness above almost everything else.
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So plant your own gardens and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
― Jorge Luis Borges
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