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Old 05-10-2010, 04:16 PM   #52
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Originally Posted by PinkieLee View Post
Yes, I do believe in soulmates... but I don't believe that you only have one in your entire lifetime. I believe that you have soulmates for different times in your life.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Each relationship serves a purpose or teaches us lessons on the journey of who we are. Soulmates consist of not only lovers, but can be friends and family as well. It's a connection, that you feel in your soul, that they are meant to be in your life, where you feel completely at peace that you've arrived home. Along the way, I've had that with 2 partners and with my BBFF.

I feel as though if you are only focusing on the goal of finding your "one true love in life" you aren't truly living and learning. Take that energy and focus on living life itself... you can write your own happy ending.
I think this is a really good point.

Years ago when the romantics wrote about soul mates, people lived for 40 years mostly. Now that we are free to love and live longer, wonderful people come in and out of our lives!

We change and sometimes who we were at 20 is not who we are at 30 or at 40 or 60.

We can have many loves over the years and it's all GOOD!
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