and that got me to here.
I did this search because I was fed-up with justifying and or defending our way of living on the main Australian lesbian social network site. Most of us who identify with the butch/femme dynamic on that site got put-off by the negative innuendo. It costs a lot of money to subscribe to that site and I started seeing it as a waste of my money.
This site's subscription is chicken feed in comparison than the one I used to subscribe to. I've only just recently joined up, but I'm being a little bit more careful before buying a years subscription, even though its cheap in comparison. Once bitten, twice shy!