My youngest daughter...
She lives and works more in eastern Massachusetts...and the people there tend to be.....somewhat abrasive....
She apparently picked up on that attitude; she had been waiting for the bus for some time and when it arrived she very sweetly asked me to hold on....and proceeded to tear into the bus driver for being almost an hour late....lol
I confess to having my moments....but being in the south has taught me that your truly do catch more flies with honey....