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How Do You Identify?: Hardcore bullheaded grown-ass Tomboy
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You know I don't know what their relationship is like, but, it personally skivs me big time when people just throw butch and man together.
"date a butch? why not just date a man?"
"butches just want to be men"
"butches are just trying to emulate men"
"butches are men in female bodies"
It's missing and completely dismissing the most important part of the whole... qualities and traits not attributable to men that is the actual BIG difference between a butch and a man... and that's more than boobs.
I'd be really bothered by any statements like that from anyone let alone my gf.
IMO,
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