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Originally Posted by Heart
You are completely missing my point.
The only thing I am trying to force, and will continue to try and force, is recognition that women exist along a diverse spectrum of gender and sexual identities, all the way from ultra-feminine to ultra-masculine, and that being ultra-masculine does NOT make one male anymore than being ultra-feminine makes one straight.
Does that expalin it better??
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No.. I didn't miss your point...
Lol.. this is just one subject we don't agree upon...
Because I belive that there are more ways to id... more diversity on the spectrum of gender and sexual identities that there are words to describe them...
and a couple of ways that ultra masculine people ID is male and ultra feminine ID is straight..
For SOME People those are truths... Nothing is true of everyone... And for me... Those people who do fall into the *Tradidional Sterotypes* have just as much voice/rights to ID as THEY ID as those who don't fall into the traditional...
For me... Not one way is better.... the entire range is right for those who feel it is right for them...
If you are a femaled id'd butch.. yea.. if you are male id'd... yea... if you are a high femme who id's a a straight mother and wife... yea.. if you are a femme dyke (me!) who loves her doc's as much as her stillettos and wants to bring her butch dinner while wearing a apron over her camo's... Yea...
There is a place for all of us... We might not fit every where.. with everyone.. but there is room for all of us...