Oh, here's something else that bugs me if I'm dating someone: crybabies. First, let me disclose that I am a hypochondriac. Whenever I feel pain or a strange sensation, I'm sure it's the end of me and I google until I find some site to confirm my suspicions. I totally get being worried about one's health, but I keep most of those thoughts to myself. And, I never whine when I am sick. I actually have a pretty high tolerance for pain. I think partly because as a kid nobody ever let me gripe too much about being sick or injured, so I don't get into feeling sorry for myself.
But when it comes to close friends or someone I care for, I will do everything for them if they're sick or injured. I'll bring a hot meal, do their dishes, walk their dog, or whatever they need. I'm very nurturing and caring in general. I just can't stand how certain people complain all the time about being sick or uncomfortable when they have no reason to feel that way. Maybe I should be more sensitive, but it drives me up a wall when a butch (or anyone) is always saying, 'it's too cold'...'my throat hurts'...'my feet hurt'...'my ass hurts'... I mean, we all have the same exact same pains. Either go to the doctor or stop crying about it. I've met a few people like this and I think, we could never go wilderness camping or do anything too rough. I want to do those things and I'm just little! It kind of makes me lose interest in someone when they can't tough out a little pain.
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Now say you're sorry for ushering in the fourth fucking reich- anonymous
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