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Originally Posted by Angeltoes

Oh, here's something else that bugs me if I'm dating someone: crybabies. First, let me disclose that I am a hypochondriac. Whenever I feel pain or a strange sensation, I'm sure it's the end of me and I google until I find some site to confirm my suspicions. I totally get being worried about one's health, but I keep most of those thoughts to myself. And, I never whine when I am sick. I actually have a pretty high tolerance for pain. I think partly because as a kid nobody ever let me gripe too much about being sick or injured, so I don't get into feeling sorry for myself.

But when it comes to close friends or someone I care for, I will do everything for them if they're sick or injured. I'll bring a hot meal, do their dishes, walk their dog, or whatever they need. I'm very nurturing and caring in general. I just can't stand how certain people complain all the time about being sick or uncomfortable when they have no reason to feel that way. Maybe I should be more sensitive, but it drives me up a wall when a butch (or anyone) is always saying, 'it's too cold'...'my throat hurts'...'my feet hurt'...'my ass hurts'... I mean, we all have the same exact same pains. Either go to the doctor or stop crying about it. I've met a few people like this and I think, we could never go wilderness camping or do anything too rough. I want to do those things and I'm just little! It kind of makes me lose interest in someone when they can't tough out a little pain.

I completely understand what you are saying, people are who they are and that's it we just have to accept it. I personally have a rare disease and I am in several Facebook groups and some of those people complain about every little thing that's wrong with them, and they are so quick to blame everything on the disease they have. I get really irritated at times because its like people shut up and listen to yourself. Let's face it none of us enjoy being sick and its the last thing we want. Just gotta live life and enjoy it and make the most out of it. Speaking of being sick, I have a lousy cold that has decided to make its presence known for me during this New Years festivities. I am not happy about it, it has ruined my plans, but I will still find a way to enjoy myself this evening. On that note I am wishing all of you a safe and Happy New Years looking forward to 2016!