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imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 08:14 PM

What works with me?

Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like *wit* and banter, not "soft and saucy".

Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt *really* helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes.

If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a *really* good sign.
I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no.

The more polite I am, the less interested I am.

01-01-2016, 08:14 PM	#82
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	What works with me? Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like wit and banter, not "soft and saucy". Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt really helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes. If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a really good sign. I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no. The more polite I am, the less interested I am. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 01-01-2016 at 08:19 PM.