I am feeling a little nervous and I know that I have to approach life differently. What do I mean, I met a femme on a dating site and we have many cross connections, one that made her particularly uncomfortable because of the closeness of it. However, since last Friday (as "friends) we spent the day together, chatted some on the phone, had lunch together yesterday and are going out tonight to some experimental theater. I am taking it slowly and just trying to be in the moment with an attractive femme who is smart, introspective and funny, in addition to being attractive to my eye.
I am beginning to believe that it is important to really get to know someone really well first. However, for the first time in a long time (and locally) it feels good for this butch to have the attention of a smart, attractive femme. She is letting me pay for stuff and take the lead in some ways but I am respecting her lead in others. this feels right to me at this time. Let's see what tomorrow brings.
