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Originally Posted by Arwen
See? Here's the deal. You can't tell me what or how to feel. You have no control over that. It's my reactions to what I read and how I perceive things.
If I choose to be sad that others feel disrespected, that's my hula hoop--not yours. Please do not tell me what to say or think or feel and I will do my best to return that favor.
You react how you want. I will react how I want. I am expressing my opinion. You are taking it personally.
Why?
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Actually... not to be nick picky but you said (my highlights)
"...I often feel as though in threads like this,
I'm supposed to feel guilty or sorry for female-id butches who are called he. I also
feel that I'm supposed to feel guilty or sorry for masculine-id butches who get called she."
Yeah, what-ever the ID, male-female I don't really think any butches are looking for anybody to feel guilty or sorry for them...
I know I sure as hell don't need it *lol*... really I don't have a damn thing to feel sorry about. I'm pretty damn happy to be me, probably to a fault. If I make a statement I don't like AB or C that ain't whinin' that's just me bitchin'...
Don't feel bad about that... I sure don't.
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