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Member
How Do You Identify?:
Hardcore bullheaded grown-ass Tomboy
Preferred Pronoun?:
She
Relationship Status:
she loves my shaggy hair
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: The backroom of a night cafe plotting world domination
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That fact that anyones defaulting instead of asking is simply lazy (like Dylan said) and with that laziness shows a great deal of indifference to those who get the short end of the default stick...
Because to default, you have to make a choice of he or she... and in that consciously choose who to disrespect.
When people who've been in the community for some time say that they do still use default pronouns... truly it says nothing to me about the he's or she's, or their value... but it speaks to me about the person who defaults, and their internal values.
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Last edited by Jett; 05-14-2010 at 03:29 PM.
Reason: grammer
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