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Originally Posted by DapperButch
I think we should agree to:
a) Calling all butches she if they do not use the pronoun space
OR
b) Calling all butches he if they do not use the pronoun space.
Anything can be written in the pronoun space and it is expected that people will do their best to look to the left <--- prior to posting.
That is what I think. 
Yes, I know I am 
(and yes, this post is pretty much tongue in cheek...but it SURE would make life easier!) |
if B is the chosen option...........well.... that will get my tits in ringer damn quick especially consider how much time has been spent in this thread alone pointing out that it's just utter bullshit to default to 'he' for butch pronouns. I never have been about making life easier............laughin..
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My name has been thrown out here several times.........laughin.....
First for those who are new. I have been ranting/raving/talking about this on-line pronoun issue for at least 10 years now. I have never let up, even when it seemed I was the only butch woman on the other site. It's important. I do have to say this.........I kind of giggle to myself when someone suggests that because I prefer female pronouns and have been known to be the one making footprints on the ceiling, I am somehow less butch or less masculine. Oh wait...........I said I giggled......dammittalltohell.... butches don't giggle.......I forget these things....I'm also not supposed to be called beautiful or like receiving flowers.
Snow............yep I do remember being called 'Miss'. I was kind of stunned at first, but then I got over that. I'm rarely ever given to violence, however I would have ripped her face off if I could have. I don't know if I ever thanked those who jumped up her shit for that........thank you if I didn't.
I do think femmes police butch pronouns and gender expression far more than butches do. I've never ever had a butch tell me they thought of all butches as he. I certainly have had femmes tell me that.......and the ones who have would shock folks if I named names. I do think I've been policed far more for claiming my cunt and my clit than for my wanting she as a pronoun. Interestingly that policing on both fronts has been done by femmes under the age of 45 or so.
I am also amazed that someone ALWAYS comes in a thread about butch woman and defends/talks about male id'd butches...........ALWAYS........EVERY TIME. I had somehow hoped it would not happen here.........but that was stupid on my part....
anyway.........I'm rambling now and I hope this is the right thread.........laughin...........I'm having a mentalpause day..........