[BullDog]

These are great points from AtLast and Gemme. You know we talk about fighting the binary and being in favor of gender diversity all the time, but at the same time there also seems to be a tendency to want to stereotype and simplify as well. To a certain degree that may be human nature. We may all gravitate towards what we are most familiar with.

However, if we really do want to fight the binary, let's start within our own community. Saying that only having two genders- man and woman - is limiting and then having narrow meanings of what femme and butch are or perpetuating stereotypes doesn't get us far at all. That's not to say many haven't been trying hard already, but I am sure we can all try to do better and broaden and deepen our understandings of each other.

Yes it can be hard to remember pronouns, it can be hard to understand all the different genders and gender expressions if you aren't familiar with them or aren't exposed to them in real time. None of this necessarily easy, but with a gender diverse community there will be more variables. That's what diversity means in the first place.