Timed Out - Identity Issues
How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch
Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine
Join Date: Jun 2016
Location: I often wonder how I got so lucky
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On my mind: I have realized that I do not do rudeness very well. (right now you are likely saying "well, duh") but it is more than that. I am a pretty low-key person. That is to say I can let things roll off me--and I consider the whole picture (meaning: does this person impact my life in any way?, do I hold them dear?, etc.) before I make comment on the situation at hand.
However, when it comes to just blatant rudeness --the kind that just happens for no reason at all other than the person just wants to "be that way" and hands it out as though it is a nicely wrapped Christmas gift --and then when you catch the rudeness and question it-- they either ignore you-- or better yet-- respond as if they have no clue what you are talking about --At the very least --OWN your rudeness.
Yes-- I do not do rudeness very well and find that I have less of a "let it roll off me" stance anymore.
Sometimes, it makes me want to get more intro versus extro -verted.
(end of the vent)
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