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Originally Posted by WingsOnFire
looks like we have both been away a while. Nice to see you again.
I feel the same way about BDSM as you. I am struggling with having that be the basis of a relationship but for me the issue is trust. Maybe one day. I too am a switch and enjoy my dominant and submissive side.
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Good to see you as well.
Yeah, after having done the whole lifestyle 24/7 thing, it simply doesn't work for me and is too much of a headache to try. Whether I am dominating or submitting for the a period of time, after that, I want the kind of woman who's fine curling back into me on the couch or allowing me to lay my head in her lap and just BE. Trust is huge. Honesty is huge. I want the kind of wife who we can tell each other anything and know it's just honest, not attacking, and that together, we can work through whatever we're facing even if it leaves us a bit raw and healing sometimes. That kind of love and trust holds it all together. Without that, you can't have the kind of love I am seeking.