View Single Post
Old 11-10-2016, 05:29 AM   #49
Gemme
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM'
 
Gemme's Avatar
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: The roads are narrow here
Posts: 36,631
Thanks: 182,498
Thanked 107,971 Times in 25,664 Posts
Rep Power: 21474888
Gemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lyte View Post
My thought for this thread is that it could be a place where anyone can express their positive feelings ... no matter how small for the place they call home. As the title suggests, it could be something you as close to you as street on which you live or as all encompassing as the country you live!

My one additional suggestion would be that when we share our likes/loves that we leave out any qualifying, clarifying, prefacing statements about whatever it is that we like/love. There are exceptions to everything... to every statement... to every opinion ... to every rule... etc. My hope is that we can keep it 100% positive... 100% gratitude... 100% appreciation ... 100% good stuff! Ya know?

I'll start... I appreciate that all my neighbors have been so friendly and welcoming since the first day I arrived!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lyte View Post
Hey y'all... please remember to keep the comments in this thread positive... positive... POSITIVE. It's nice to have a place on BFP where we can express our appreciation / gratitude / happiness about where we live.

Yes, there are reasons not to be 110% thrilled about our current location and there are other threads to express those thoughts and feelings.

Thank you!
Quote:
Originally Posted by *Anya* View Post
I think since we are all adults, we can chose to write something positive or not.

Only moderators get to tell us how or what we should remember to write.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lyte View Post
Wow

I didn't think it too much to ask that we try and keep this particular thread positive since I started it and did so with that specific goal in mind.

But you're right, such a request was too much for me to ask. Thank you for making that fact abundantly clear.
I agree that whoever...whomever?...starts a thread should be the captain and guide it through the murky waters of the internet and, if need be, bring it back on course when it drifts off this way or that.

Having said that, most of us just had a major, life changing event that affected the entire country and will stay with us for at least 4 years and, more likely, many after that. I get that this isn't a political thread and it's meant to be positive but I think that the couple of posts I saw weren't extreme and I think that chastising the type of responses that are less than 100% happyhappyhappy is a little much too.

There's a happy medium in there somewhere. gotoseagirl's post, for example. She expressed her sadness with her country and then some nice things. That's very real and that's where we are right now. All of us have something they like or love about the places they live and some things that aren't perfect. This isn't the place to blast off about the negative stuff but it's still part of the picture.

For thread compliance, I like that the people up here care about the environment. When I travel state roads and highways, there's a fraction of the trash and debris and junk that I would find when I drove down South. When my company built a new building some years ago, the city demanded a large percentage of the property contain grass so I now have a huge front lawn, which I have a love/hate relationship with but I prefer that over ugly concrete.

Oh and I saw a wild bunny last night! Love that.
__________________


I'm misunderestimated.
Gemme is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Gemme For This Useful Post: