Like Tinkerbelly, I am almost 60 (on Jan 15th), have had several major surgeries in the last few years and deal with chronic acute pain every day. I struggle to feel sexy. I try at best to feel good. However, my husband certainly has ways to help ease me into the sexy zone. And like Medusa said, it is the moments stolen out of context of the situation, that claws away the pain and allows me moments of femmeness once again.
My favorite is when he comes home from work(he works midnites) and steals in next to me and wakes me slowly to his hands over me, gently touching but Touching. I do not wake to pain. I wake to Him. I love that he helps me forgets, has found a way to get me back in my skin without pain, and feel my womanness.
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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