[Medusa]

Depends on the date!

In general I like a little old school chivalry with opening my car door and doors at restaurants and such but if we are going out to hike around in the woods or something, I don't expect as much formality.
And "expect" is too strong a word because I don't get bent out of shape if someone doesn't open my door or whatever. It's just a nicety.

I also don't need my Butch to always pay or treat me. I enjoy treating just as much!

I do also love the little physical things on dates that make my knees buckle: the hand on the small of my back that guides me through spaces, the firm grip on my hand when we are in a crowd so that we don't get separated, the little buzzy feeling of having my hair smoothed away from my neck so he can go in for a little nibble. Those things don't necessarily need to happen on a date (I like it all the time!) but WHOOSH when they do!