girl_dee, that is painful beyond words, yes.
In healing from abuse from a maternal/paternal figure
I will share with you that seeing loving parents would
trigger deep grieving for me. Therapy with a therapist
who had healed, and was knowledgeable was what I
did to feel this grieving and heal.
And I found in this process that I have my ideal mother, and
ideal father within myself. And that I could love myself the
way I wanted my mother and father to love me.
It takes take time, find a caring, knowledgeable therapist
and be tender, gentle with yourself.
fondly, Greco
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Originally Posted by girl_dee
how about when you see other mothers and daughters having a normal relationship?
it brings up big stuff for me.
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