My sweetie hasn't yet been to visit me at my home, as much as I would like that. Because of work and child commitments, I'm the one logging the frequent flyer miles.
There are some sweet things she does for me when I'm there....and some I try to do for her...

She always has diet coke and doritos...my two big weaknesses

She is my chauffeur to the beach

...not in the house, but still a biggie

scented candles

and more important than anything else....her attention, affection and love
And for her....I try to make her a home-cooked meal (when she lets me

), bake some brownies or cookies...and give her a massage.