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Infamous Member
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Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, her
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Committed to being good to myself
Join Date: Jun 2011
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I think that these days, labels are a general "alert" ( probably the wrong word) as to what a person feels comfortable with, to narrow the dating pool down a tad.
The only way to really know, is to discuss. Even then, for some, it depends on the person and the situation.
By the time you are ready to have sex of any type, a clear and open discussion should have already been had.
I do training at my job (one of my hats) about HIV/AIDS and it still amazes me the number of people that tell me that they have sex first and ask the questions after or tell me "but he or she looked clean". I have straight men/straight women/transfolk/lesbians and gays; so it is everyone not always having those open and honest discussions.
By that point, uh oh.
Yes, there are many different sexual identities and desires for lesbians, too.
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~Anya~
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