[Rockinonahigh]

I had a full hysto in 1989,they did a full cull down the tummy wich I wish they hadnt but I had fibroids so bad it was the best way to go.This threw me into major memopause with hot flashes from hell,I was on hrt for anout 6 months and quit cause I hated the pills and was told by the doc I could have probs from them later in life,I dont like takeing any med that isint nessary to start with.I was up and driveing intwo weeks even tho thety said to wait a month,I did wait two months before I went back to work as my job was very physical with lots of lifting tho I didnt do much even then for another couple a of months.My sex drive was lower than before and I had probs with being dryer than the sahara,thank g-d for lube..My sex drive never was what it once was, tho its a long way from gone.Before my hysto I was never all that comfy with vaginal sex to begain with,after wards I couldnt handle it at all..it really freaked me out and that has never changed.For long time I had no clue what being stone was untill I read about it on a gay site,then I talked to a threapist about it so over time have become ok with it all so now its not a big deal..the stoneness I mean.