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Love is actions, not simply words. It's such a tired cliche, but it is so true. Think about it.
People who don't listen, don't respect boundaries, while all in the same breath swearing they love you so much, is not good love. Or else if it really is them thinking they love you, then it's not healthy love. I think there are two types of love. Healthy love and unhealthy love. Unhealthy love is very draining & selfish and the negativity consumes too much of the time and relationship.
I do think someone who has a lot of bad issues and is unhealthy (mentally/emotionally) can genuinely love someone in their very unhealthy ways. And be none the wiser.
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Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence
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