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Femmewench · 08-25-2017, 11:58 AM

Casual mainly - I can dress up, but prefer that to mean lingerie rather than heels and hose. I don't like heels. I'm sandals or crocs or a pair of dancing ankle boots.
I'm a true Taurus - stubborn. I have an easier time saying "you're right" than "I'm wrong."
I'm a high school drop out which you'd never guess.
I'm an introvert for my energy and still somewhat shy. Much less so now than 20-30 years ago.
I can make myself blush completely unintentionally. Sometimes I truly don't hear the double entendre until after I've said it.
I blush fairly easily for 58. I used to think you outgrew blushing.
I'm not big on makeup. I've never used foundation as I'm just fine with my blemishes.
I have a very good memory. Being told to suck in my tummy when I was 10. Being told someone had a good dermatologist who could deal with the blotch near my eye in my 40s. Self image is a struggle, but not enough of one that I didn't ask the woman with the dermatologist why she thought I'd go to one.
I find confrontation uncomfortable (thanks mom.) To my detriment, I'd rather ignore some things for the sake of my comfort level. But there is a limit.
I'm unwilling to go to sleep angry.
I overanalyze.
I take people at face value and haven't been burned for it.
I've never wanted children and have had none, but I'm very nurturing.
I'm a masochist who has a low pain threshold, until I'm flying on endorphins.
I've fought my submissive side most of my life, but now am more open to it.
I bought Variations magazine in my teens and knew I was not nilla.
I knew at 14 I liked girls and knew that wasn't safe.
I'm the world's best represser as I rediscovered liking girls at 37.
I thought I was asexual in between which made no sense to me.
I actually asked a therapist if there was anything wrong with being happy I was a lesbian.
My first 4th of July with a beach picnic put on by a dyke motorcycle group I was told I wouldn't have been picked up to be taken to the beach (had to park far away) as I didn't look like a lesbian. Stupid woman - her, not me.
As soon as I came out, I went to the gay bookstore and bought them out. Persistent Desire was a godsend.
There are shiny things and squirrels in my world on a fairly frequent basis.
I love painted toenails and fingernails.
I'm adopted and pro-choice. Had I ever become pregnant, abortion would have been my option.
I have only ever been attracted to those on the butch end of the scale. It's the required energy to make parts of me come to life - and that's my grey matter which controls other parts as well.
I enjoy having the door held open for me and have no problem holding the door open for others. If I don't get an acknowledgment for doing so, I'm prone to telling them "you're welcome" in a loud tone of voice.
I said thank you to the man who stole my wallet because he let me go ahead of him in a turn style. Manners count.
I can swear and do, but mostly not where I can be overheard.
I kill spiders without hesitation and can kill cockroaches but prefer to let someone else do that if possible.
I'm learning to change the oil on my generator.
I love to cook for friends. and lovers. I love the sense of community that can generate. I love taking care of you and being taken care of.
There's more of course, but some things should be left to discover.
Oh - I don't have femme friends in r/t. They're few and far between. I'd like some though.

08-25-2017, 11:58 AM	#225
Femmewench Member How Do You Identify?: Casual Femme Saphiosexual Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: Divorced Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Albuquerque, NM Posts: 376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,676 Thanked 1,269 Times in 330 Posts Rep Power: 10346603	What kind of femme am I? Casual mainly - I can dress up, but prefer that to mean lingerie rather than heels and hose. I don't like heels. I'm sandals or crocs or a pair of dancing ankle boots. I'm a true Taurus - stubborn. I have an easier time saying "you're right" than "I'm wrong." I'm a high school drop out which you'd never guess. I'm an introvert for my energy and still somewhat shy. Much less so now than 20-30 years ago. I can make myself blush completely unintentionally. Sometimes I truly don't hear the double entendre until after I've said it. I blush fairly easily for 58. I used to think you outgrew blushing. I'm not big on makeup. I've never used foundation as I'm just fine with my blemishes. I have a very good memory. Being told to suck in my tummy when I was 10. Being told someone had a good dermatologist who could deal with the blotch near my eye in my 40s. Self image is a struggle, but not enough of one that I didn't ask the woman with the dermatologist why she thought I'd go to one. I find confrontation uncomfortable (thanks mom.) To my detriment, I'd rather ignore some things for the sake of my comfort level. But there is a limit. I'm unwilling to go to sleep angry. I overanalyze. I take people at face value and haven't been burned for it. I've never wanted children and have had none, but I'm very nurturing. I'm a masochist who has a low pain threshold, until I'm flying on endorphins. I've fought my submissive side most of my life, but now am more open to it. I bought Variations magazine in my teens and knew I was not nilla. I knew at 14 I liked girls and knew that wasn't safe. I'm the world's best represser as I rediscovered liking girls at 37. I thought I was asexual in between which made no sense to me. I actually asked a therapist if there was anything wrong with being happy I was a lesbian. My first 4th of July with a beach picnic put on by a dyke motorcycle group I was told I wouldn't have been picked up to be taken to the beach (had to park far away) as I didn't look like a lesbian. Stupid woman - her, not me. As soon as I came out, I went to the gay bookstore and bought them out. Persistent Desire was a godsend. There are shiny things and squirrels in my world on a fairly frequent basis. I love painted toenails and fingernails. I'm adopted and pro-choice. Had I ever become pregnant, abortion would have been my option. I have only ever been attracted to those on the butch end of the scale. It's the required energy to make parts of me come to life - and that's my grey matter which controls other parts as well. I enjoy having the door held open for me and have no problem holding the door open for others. If I don't get an acknowledgment for doing so, I'm prone to telling them "you're welcome" in a loud tone of voice. I said thank you to the man who stole my wallet because he let me go ahead of him in a turn style. Manners count. I can swear and do, but mostly not where I can be overheard. I kill spiders without hesitation and can kill cockroaches but prefer to let someone else do that if possible. I'm learning to change the oil on my generator. I love to cook for friends. and lovers. I love the sense of community that can generate. I love taking care of you and being taken care of. There's more of course, but some things should be left to discover. Oh - I don't have femme friends in r/t. They're few and far between. I'd like some though.