Not today, but over my lifetime, two very important people in my life gave me the best advice, which both items of advice can be very useful, if applied carefully with love and care.
1) Be careful what you wish for, it might just come true.
2) Be careful in who you reveal your 'hand' to..... sometimes it's best not to show your full hand or lay all your 'cards' on the table.
Sidebar: Over time, I've learned that it's wise to be safe. To LQQK out for yourself, first and always. It's not selfish to do that because it's an act of love you give to yourself unselfishly.
