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girl_dee · 10-29-2017, 05:36 AM

when people offer unsolicited advice.

There are times when we ask for suggestions, but why do some people feel a need to offer their advice, aka "give direction" when no one is asking for it?

i find this completely irritating and exhausting. i don’t want to have to battle someone about what they think i should be doing, when i didn’t ask for them to fix something that isn’t broken.

The point of the conversation gets lost because the person is really only interested in advising.

10-29-2017, 05:36 AM	#704
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,832 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	when people offer unsolicited advice. There are times when we ask for suggestions, but why do some people feel a need to offer their advice, aka "give direction" when no one is asking for it? i find this completely irritating and exhausting. i don’t want to have to battle someone about what they think i should be doing, when i didn’t ask for them to fix something that isn’t broken. The point of the conversation gets lost because the person is really only interested in advising.