Interesting article, while I continue to marinate this topic ...
http://katebornstein.typepad.com/kat...a-butchfe.html
Also.. regarding using posts from b-f.com ( the site who must not be spoken...
) I have no issue with using any reference I can find to help educate myself and/or assist myself in making points that my limited vocabulary/ vernacular might hinder me from doing. While, I will not repost parts of threads from there as per the owners copyright stuff, I do feel completely in the right in using posts there as " jumping off points" or reference points for any conversation I may have regarding the butch-femme dynamic.
I appreciate the discussion very much. Thank you Medusa for opening it!