For years i spent most of my free time hanging out with straight white guys in bars and clubs listening to altcountry bands (Steve Earle, Lucinda Williams -- that kind of thing).
My CD's are more important than my shoes or anything i wear.
i wear a few outfits all the time -- rotating. i never have a lot of clothes.
i date femmes as well as butches. i love the butch-femme dynamic. It is effing HOT, but it's not the only dynamic that gets me hot.
i usually decorate my apartments in a sort of sophomore male's dorm room aesthetic.
i pay attention to the people who interest me. i will forget even extremely cute butches' names if they don't do something memorable.
i prefer beer to any other kind of alcoholic drink.
When i have sex people who like these things, i fist, lick, bite, slap, growl, and fuck.
i ID as a lesbian before i ID as femme.
i feel a strong sense of sisterhood with feminine lesbians (not femmes) and straight women. i think of them as like me in many ways.
i'd much rather be naked in public than dressed up in formal attire. (i am naked in public occasionally -- at leather events -- so that's not hypothetical.)
i like butches with curves. (A friend reminded me about that the other day.) YUM.
i take no prisoners when i argue.
i have no crafty hobbies.
i use no emoticons or anything online that twinkles, shines, or sparkles. i will increase my font to wish someone a happy birthday.
There is nothing babygirl or daddy's girl about me. i do not have the gene.
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