[kassykit]

Thank you ! sometimes when it comes to these labels i feel if i'm beating my head against a wall one day i will break down the wall and be comfy with being me!

Originally Posted by WolfyOne

Kassy, I read your original post and I have to tell you, you're not alone in this world we've created, full of labels and identities. My GF is a jeans and tee shirt gal, but considers herself to be femme. She can dress up or down and never wears makeup because she's allergic to most all brands. Those here that know her, know what I mean. I often call her my tweener, but she hates the label, so I've taken to calling her toolbelt femme at times. She has more tools than I'd ever seen in one house and she can use all of them. I, on the other hand, consider myself to be a butch, but I'm not as good with tools as my GF....I have no depth perception, but it doesn't make me any less butch. I'm thankful to have a woman in my life that's better at the things I'm not good at. So, in the end, don't worry about what you wear or don't wear. You can be anyone you want to be and don't ever let anyone ever tell you different. How you feel from the inside out is totally up to you.