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Old 01-21-2018, 02:44 PM   #27
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Originally Posted by DapperButch View Post
Hell yeah, first date discussion (not really, but I probably do "poke around" during the first handle of dates to see how people relate to and think about their money).

I would never date someone who wasn't open to having a retirement plan in place. I don't want to work forever (to cover your lack of planning), sorry.
I really agree with you. One of my mentors, when he was thinking of dating this woman asked her financial questions (to make sure they were on the same page financially speaking) and they were. He has around $80m now, and much of this is to his wife's working with him on finances.

I also came from a fortunate background, and would be most comfortable with someone from my own background.. more in common, more in synch, same financial beliefs, values, etc.

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