My aunt Carol.
My aunt Janet is having a gathering at her house today for her husband's birthday. My mom told me a couple weeks ago she wasn't going. My mother is OCD and the most sanitary person I have ever met. She told me she doesn't feel like some people at these gatherings are very sanitary. For example, at the last event one of the nieces changed her baby's diaper and didn't wash her hands and then someone used their hands to get food. My mom's immune system is very low so she has to be very careful about germs. Plus, she hasn't been feeling well.
When she told my aunt Carol she didn't want to go my aunt gave her a hard time. (My mom won't tell her how she feels about the unsanitary stuff or when she's not feeling well) Carol thinks just because my mom doesn't look sick and that she still goes on walks and does things in her yard that my mom is fine. She always drives and then keeps my mom up there all day. My mom always feels bad when she gets home.
I am a little irritated with my mom for not sticking to her guns. I want to say something to Carol but my mom doesn't want me to do that. I feel like I should at least say something.
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