[nycfem]

Reach and Rebeldyke and this applies to everyone as well,

As mods we have no way of knowing when you report a post that does not name names who the post is about. We can't read minds. If you post something that could be interpreted as negatively about someone else, like I've said before on the forum, please make a point to signify that you are not referencing someone on the forum and to be cautious with private jokes that could be interpreted as passive-aggressive. This particularly applies if you are in an ongoing skirmish with another member.

My apologies for anytime things are called out wrong based on reports, but please keep in mind that we are doing our best to make people feel heard, and members can help by monitoring their own posts before putting them up on the forum.

For Reach and Rebeldyke, my suggestion is that you both put each other on "Ignore." It was brought to my attention that "Block" would be even more helpful- but at this time we do not have this feature, so "Ignore" is the best we have to offer.

Thanks, and hopefully we are all done with this whole issue, and can just... smile.