[Ghost Huntin' Daddy]

Originally Posted by Blaze

If one can ground and be able to use all Chakra's then why is it that grounding is so damn difficult? I have been scratched, bitten, written on, I have been invaded and used to converse through. Now mind you. I am strong and I have no problems being the middle person of contact. But... When they start physically abusing your body mind and spirit then I Do have a problem. From a good friend on this site I have gotten help. And I am learning the grounding part of this all. I am just having a very difficult time keeping grounded for long periods of time.
The so called "Normal spirits" don't drain me as do the ghoulies as I call them. ~Sigh~ Thinking I just may give in and throw in the towel...

Don't throw away your gift. The hardest thing to do is to stay grounded! Trust me, I know this first hand. Had a terrible attack in Gettysburg!
Anyway, speaking to Michelle Belanger, she told me and a few others there, that grounding was like lifting weights. You cant just move to the 100lb ones and expect to be buff that day! It takes time, effort and most of all, training. Maybe you offer too much of yourself for them to use. Or maybe you need to learn more shielding after you ground. Once you're shielded, you can allow certain energies in and at the rate you want them.
Michelle has a great book out called the Psychic Codex. Lots of great info and exercises in there. Keep at it. I'm sure there's a very good reason why you've been given this gift!