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When it comes to homes that feel completely safe and welcoming, I can completely understand. My Mums home is like that. It's so quiet and still and peaceful, I never get contacted by anything inside, although I often see the 'shadow' of a cat Mum once lived with, she comes to check in on Mum sometimes, she's brushed against me and Mum from time to time, but I'm the only one who 'sees' her.
The house is one of a row of homes that were built for miners, the village used to be the site of a coal mine. Other homes feel very busy, like a lot of people are still coming and going inside them, but not this one. I walk outside to smoke and if there's anyone around, I 'hear' them, but they never come indoors, they know that they're not allowed to follow me, so I get messages from our family outside to take inside to pass on to Mum.
I've never felt like this house needs to be blessed, I think it's welcoming enough without it. I's a very comfortable place to live, even if we're argueing as a family, it's still like being inside a cocoon of love and comfort...
And Nat, yes, I do have a spirit animal. Mine is a wolf!
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