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Originally Posted by JDeere
And if you tell them and they dont feel the same, that hurts. Rejection hurts.
No thanks i stopped crushing and im staying away from things in life that are more realistic.
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Everyone is afraid of rejection. Rejection is definitely not pleasant. However, at our ages (1. we should all be acting like adults here) we should be able to say "I am flattered but I do not feel the same way", and guess what....we all go about our day. We can choose to drop it and still talk because we value the friendship..... or we can let it eat us up inside, feel like a fool and never speak to that person again.
But stay with me here JDeere....what if they do feel the same way and the both of you have been wasting time not making a move? What if it turns out to be something truly amazing? Is it worth the risk?
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