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Originally Posted by Dylan
I don't understand why breast feeding is seen as 'inappropriate'.
I mean, I agree with Juliesafemme. It's not a sexual thing...yet it is constantly sexualized...even to the point of being considered 'illegal' in some places.
So, why is it ok to have a doll that one gives a bottle to, yet breast feeding is seen as 'wrong'?
I don't get it.
Being Serious,
Dylan
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I think this has to do with the sexualization of women, period. If my only, or primary, value is sexual than anything I'm doing with my breasts must be sexual too.
I breastfed my son until he was 17 months old...and I couldn't even begin to tell you how much crap I put up with about it. I was always modest about it...that's just who I am...and my son was one of those babies who was fine to have a blanket or scarf covering completely while he nursed. I was told on more than one occasion that I should go nurse him in the bathroom...instead of the relatively private quiet spots I would find at the mall, in a restaurant or wherever I was. My reaction was always the same...."really? do you eat your lunch in the bathroom? I don't."
Women's bodies aren't always sexual...but in this culture that's still their primary value. Barf.