[Lady Pamela]

Originally Posted by julieisafemme

I am simply trying to make the point that queers are blamed and labeled as pedophiles by straight culture. I was making no comments about queer parents at all.

This is too personal an issue for me and I am not communicating clearly. I apologize for that. I still maintain that pedophiles do not need sexual images of children to promote their behavior. That does not mean in any way that I agree with or condone of the sexualization of children in media or in any other way. I just want children to stop being hurt.

Yes..I agree that sick minded people don't need anything to promote there sick twisted minds.

But..Do you not see how the media,
by allowing things to be broadcast..in a sexual tone,
To innocent children and young adults,
Is fueling the sick minds of these people who are dangerious?

And lets add to that,
Children wearing clothing that other adults put onto the market because it makes children look/feel older and sexy.
But they put it on the shelf for the almighty dollar.
Without any reguards to our babies.

This also " fuels " the already twisted minds ...and promotes reaction...whatever that be.


No it is not just the fault of the media or the cloths maker.
But they do fuel the flame without reguard to our childrens safety.
They will even tell you in promoting products that "Sex Sales".

As far as people who sale clothes like this,
Then there are those who fight for child safety but at the same , they sale this crap.
Those who sale them and are oblivious to this thought....thus needing an eye opener.
Or those who pass the buck..Blame it on the parents alone...And leave it all to them.
" Nothing wrong with putting the weight on the parents shoulders" Don't get me wrong...But where did human concern and decency go for mankind?

Out the door for the next buck!


One more thing then I will be quiet...{for a minute..lol}...I promise..

Someone brought up woman who got raped, and if she deserved it by what she chose to wear... etc.

Of course the woman never deserved it.
The mind of the person who raped was warped well before this woman was present.

BUT,
What you wear and the circumstances where you wear it... could entice that type of person to react on sick intentions.

I fought that fight in court and won...
My rapist was put behind 4 walls.

Was it my choice to wear tight jeans and a slightly reveaing shirt with heals....Sure

Was it my fault I got raped from wearing it?
No it was not...I did not give permission for that.

But could it have egnited something...Though...still not my fault...yes.

Oh and to tie em all togther...I was young and wearing things to entice older ppl..And it most definately did!

Also ..My mother was way against it by the way...
I would changed when I left...I was a rebel hell child.
So it is not always the mamma's fault either.


Just speaking from a me/my/mine point of view...
Not attacking anyones views here.

Nor directing this towards any one person.