[The_Lady_Snow]

Originally Posted by Greyson

I have never jumped into Julie's online posting. I know she is a full grown adult woman and can handle herself. I am going to comment now because I do have real time exposure to Julie because we have been dating for almost 18 months now. I met Julie when she was at the beginning of a very contentious divorce and that legal matter is still unresolved.

Why am I spelling such personal matters out here in a post? Because what you don't know nor should you have had any reason to know, is that Julie's soon to be ex-husband stalks her postings and mine on both this site and the Dash site. He attempts to enter some of the posts made by both of us into the public court record of this pending divorce.

Julie did not ask me to make this post. I am doing this on my own volition. I do not want her ex to in any way misunderstand, take out of context, what was posted here by Julie. I have seen Julie with her daughter on a very regular basis. Julie does not condone pedophilia. Nor does she think it is okay for children to dress in a provocative manner.

I believe some of Julie's posting may have been taken out of context. IMO it is easy to do when all communication is purely in written form. I also know that some of us here, are survivors of some sort of childhood sexual abuse. I know for me, I sometimes get very triggered when I perceive even the slightest condoning of using children, male or female as sexual objects in any way. My perceptions can push my buttons big time.

Please, you do not have to agree with me or Julie and our views. Again, I am attempting to be very clear that Julie does not parent her daughter in any way that condones pedophilia or any other illegal and damaging behavior that would hurt her daughter.

I don't believe anyone was saying julie is a bad parent or one that condones pedophilia.

Snow

who knows about custody battles and such

PS

Does this mean we can't ever have a discussion with julie again??? I don't get you coming in here I really don't.