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Originally Posted by clementinefemme
I'm feeling frustrated. Could use some advice.
How do you know when someone is really guarded and needs love and care to open them up versus when someone truly just has the emotional depth of a toothbrush? How much time should I invest in this process?
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I guess you just have to weigh how much you like them already versus the value of your time. I would suggest that you keep in mind that your personal brand of "love and care" may not be what is required to "open them up". And try not to fall in love - yet - because betting on changing a person into someone you want them to be is usually a losing bet. Good luck!