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SuperFemme · 06-12-2010, 01:28 PM

I feel the need to come back here and clarify.

The word breeder as uttered by Dylan and my reaction to that word have nothing to do with each other. Light years apart.

I didn't do a good job of making that clear, in fact I made it feel like Dylan was responsible for my reaction.

Dylan, I am sorry for that. I am also sorry for using the wrong pronoun. I was typing fast and hadn't realized I'd used "hy" rather than "he" in reference to you.

Suddenly I found myself in a place where I wanted to dig my heels in and that is not conducive to making sense. So I apologize.

You can have your patriarchal cross reference.

I hope you in turn can understand how hurtful and erasing the term can be to me as a Femme.

This doesn't have to be an either or situation.

06-12-2010, 01:28 PM	#112
SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,108 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	I feel the need to come back here and clarify. The word breeder as uttered by Dylan and my reaction to that word have nothing to do with each other. Light years apart. I didn't do a good job of making that clear, in fact I made it feel like Dylan was responsible for my reaction. Dylan, I am sorry for that. I am also sorry for using the wrong pronoun. I was typing fast and hadn't realized I'd used "hy" rather than "he" in reference to you. Suddenly I found myself in a place where I wanted to dig my heels in and that is not conducive to making sense. So I apologize. You can have your patriarchal cross reference. I hope you in turn can understand how hurtful and erasing the term can be to me as a Femme. This doesn't have to be an either or situation. Last edited by SuperFemme; 06-12-2010 at 01:32 PM. Reason: i have metal plates in my head but i'm not above saying i am sorry. now move along and settle down. don't gloat.