[BullDog]

Well that’s a very disappointing response. You say you respect “respectable” women - so in other words they have to meet your standards. There is a long history of women being shamed based on how they dress or present themselves. That is specifically what I brought up. No one is bullying you. You are the one refusing to look at the issue. You can choose to chat and date who you want to without being so judgmental and contributing to the shaming of women - based on your own words here and not on whatever your background happens to be which to me is irrelevant. We are all responsible for what we say and write and your life story doesn’t have anything to do with that.

As a Butch I would think you would understand. We come under so much criticism for how we dress, having short hair, etc. sometimes it’s brutal. And yet we present ourselves in how it feels natural to us and not to meet society’s expectations despite often being treated with utter disdain.