[kittygrrl]

Cin I don't wish to argue with you. I respect you feel differently then i do. People here pick & choose who they battle. Some people on this site have tried for ages to slut shame me for one thing or another and i usually don't say too much...Why? Because i don't care about their opinions. They don't influence or hurt me in any degree...they've stop because it's no fun to poke someone who doesn't give a flying fig about what they think. I have a rich social life in the real and come here to support the website because it's been good to me...Medusa tries to be patient and extremely fair when it comes to issues. To put it simply i don't like dog piling because it's hurtful and silences and when certain people smell blood in the water they go all in because there is safety in numbers. Can we afford to lose one voice here? In my opinion, no..and we may not be able to change opinions either. But I think we're capable of responding in kindness it's a choice, but it's not as much fun as harassing a good member who's supported this site for a long time. I want to imagine our community is better then this but it's not...Insofar as civil war....it's not just racists who are agreeable ...Republicans are trying to arrange a less bloody coup by rearranging and ostracizing parts of society from voting...it seems to be working because liberals can't stand each other and the infighting is ridiculous.

This is my last post on this subject. Unlike some here, i don't relish argument. I despise it actually. but i wanted to try...