Fidelity and monogamy are at the top of my tick list. I've never cheated on anyone. I have been cheated on and it is crushing. I put all of my trust into a relationship once that trust is earned. When it is breached, I'm done. No fixing it no apology wanted or needed no excuses. Just leave me alone.
This happens in online and LDR's just as it dies in real life. Not nearly as crushing but still hurtful. I guess perhaps dew to the nature of the situation mostly being virtual.
Either way I back off and need alone time to clear my head and thoughts. Sort of back up and punt. Regroup. I always learn something about myself, so when it has happened, all is not lost, only a setback.
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