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PearlsNLace · 06-13-2010, 06:51 PM

When Paphigleo and I started dating we had to seriously consider wich of the 2 evils we were willing to face-

Having a long distance relationship,
or
Doing the 2nd date UHual thing.

We decided we would rather move to fast, and face the risks, than the expense and agony of the long distance.

We planned an exit strategy for each of us, if moving him in didnt work. We planned a dating strategy too- that is still in effect.

He moved here in January, and at this point I do think we made the right choice.

My heart goes out to each of you who are working with the distance. It can be a rough one.

06-13-2010, 06:51 PM	#4
PearlsNLace Member How Do You Identify?: queer Preferred Pronoun?: They/Them & her/she Relationship Status: Lucky, very lucky Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Portlandia, Oregon Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 875 Thanked 1,286 Times in 315 Posts Rep Power: 6505517	When Paphigleo and I started dating we had to seriously consider wich of the 2 evils we were willing to face- Having a long distance relationship, or Doing the 2nd date UHual thing. We decided we would rather move to fast, and face the risks, than the expense and agony of the long distance. We planned an exit strategy for each of us, if moving him in didnt work. We planned a dating strategy too- that is still in effect. He moved here in January, and at this point I do think we made the right choice. My heart goes out to each of you who are working with the distance. It can be a rough one.